Category: Discouragement
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What Christ’s Victory Means for My Marriage And 5 Steps to Embrace It! (Linkup)

I’m excited to have Lori Schumaker as my guest today while I’m on vacation. She is sharing her hope-filled insights for when our marriages are impacted by the schemes of the devil, as we continue in my spiritual warfare series. Please make her feel at home here by commenting below and sharing her wise words…
BethSteffaniak
Bible Study, Christ-Centered, Deception, Discouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Identity, Insecurity, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Marriage, Negative Self-Talk, Positive Focus, Prayer, Security, Self-deception, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Spiritual Warfare, Spiritual Warfare Series, Surrender, Truth -
Video of Wives Confessing Bad Habits in Marriage

I’m excited to be back with another video chronicling the confessions of several wives on one or two bad habits they bring into their marriages. These are all from friends of mine who share openly about their flaws, along with a few that are laugh-out-loud funny! I hope you’ll stick around to watch this 5 minute…
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4 Ways Satan Divides Us in Marriage (Linkup and Giveaway!)

Today, I’m continuing to unpack my series on spiritual warfare in marriage—focusing today on how Satan loves to divide us as couples when we pursue good and godly things. Whenever the Enemy can’t divide us from God, he goes the roundabout way by dividing us as couples, which often divides us from the Lord when all is…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Alienation, Bible Study, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Deception, Desires, Differences, Discouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Humility, Marriage, Negative Self-Talk, Parenthood, Pride, Priorities, Spiritual Practices, Spiritual Warfare, Spiritual Warfare Series, Truth -
Increase Good Chemistry of Love in Marriage (And Linkup)

I’m continuing to unpack another lesson in my “Back to School” series by discussing today how I gained back the “chemistry” or feelings of love that had cooled when my marriage was at its messiest. I learned the hard way that what I do drastically impacts the way I feel in my marriage. Let me…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Acceptance, Affection, Anger, Attitude, Back to School Series, Blaming, Bonding, Change, Choices, Comfort, Connection, Desires, Discouragement, Emotions, Encouragement, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Intimacy, Love, Marriage, Marriage Spark, Negative Self-Talk, Positive Focus, Proactive, Resentments, Responsibility, Sex & Sexuality, Thankfulness -
4 Myths Every New Bride Should Know About Sex Plus Giveaway and Linkup

Today I’m excited to have my good bloggy friend Ngina Otiende as my guest, offering her perspective about some of the myths new brides cling to regarding sex, while countering them with the truths she’s discovered. And even though this is for the new bride, I think every wife out there can find valuable truth…
BethSteffaniak
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Why Refueling with Family and Friends Brings Sanity {And Synchroblog}

Recently, my sweet blogging friend, Linda Stoll, invited me and a few other lovely lady bloggers to join her in a synchroblog—answering the question, “What Saved My Life This Summer.” My mind immediately went to how often I feel emotionally spent by the time May or June rolls around. I’ve been blogging since February of…
BethSteffaniak
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The ABC’s of How to Forgive a Spouse And Linkup

One of the gusty winds people often feel in marriage has to do with a heart growing cold out of a need to forgive a mate. I was there in that frigid place many years ago and still find myself tempted to return to that icy and unforgiving place whenever my husband hurts me. Because…
BethSteffaniak
Acceptance, Anger, Back to School Series, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Discouragement, Emotions, Encouragement, Faith in God, Forgiveness, From Messes to Messages Linkup, God’s Redemption, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Love of God, Marriage, Pain, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Redemption, Resentments, Self-awareness, Self-Reflection, Self-sacrifice, Truth, Victim Mentality, Wounds -
The Cure for ‘Pity-Pot’ Prayers to Gain Perspective in Marriage

I’m continuing in my series: “Back to School—7 Lessons on Learning to Love Well When the Winds of Marriage Grow Colder”—by talking today about lesson #2 on “Writing.” Be advised: this isn’t just writing for the sake of improving our penmanship or literary skills. It is all about a valuable marriage tool available to us…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Acceptance, Anger, Attitude, Back to School Series, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Confession, Denial, Discouragement, Encouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Marriage, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Pride, Resentments, Self-awareness, Self-deception, Self-Reflection, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Victim Mentality -
How Your Marriage Factors into Your Bible Study Habit And Linkup

Whenever we slow ourselves to be with God through daily prayer and Bible study, we will inevitably face distractions, discouragements and difficulties that pull us away from this pursuit. #spiritualwarfare It’s never easy to start and maintain a good habit but it’s so much harder at the start of this very important sacred habit. So…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Accountability, Attitude, Bible Study Tools, Choices, Christ-Centered, Commitment, Discouragement, Encouragement, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, God’s Redemption, Perseverance, Persevere in the Lord, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Priorities, Redemption, Slow Know and Grow Series, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Support -
Make Dating a Priority with Simple Date Idea #1

Sometimes we can let our lives become more crowded and busy than we should with kids to shuttle here and responsibilities to do there, eventually putting the priority of dating our mates on the back burner. Then we wonder why our marriage feels so lifeless and our spouse seems distant and uncaring. If there’s one…


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