Category: Amends

• How to Forgive the Past and Move Forward in Your Marriage

  

  Today, I’m excited to introduce to you my next guest blogger in the “Spring Clean Your Marriage” series—Julie Loos. She’s sharing about how subtle and destructive ruminating on our mates’ failures and limitations can be to our marriages. Be sure to check out her bio below, as well as making her feel welcome by commenting…

  BethSteffaniak

  June 2, 2019

  Acceptance, Alienation, Amends, Anger, Attitude, Bad Habits, Blaming, Boundaries, Christ-Centered, Communication, Counseling, Discouragement, Emotions, Encouragement, Expectations, Forgiveness, Humility, Marriage, Nagging, Negative Self-Talk, Pain, Positive Focus, Pride, Resentments, Self-awareness, Spiritual Growth, Spring Clean Your Marriage, Victim Mentality, Wounds

  Anger, Bitterness, Conflict, Counseling, Faith in God, Forgive, Forgiveness, Humble, Pouting, Pride, Prideful, Ruminating

• 7 Ways to Clean Up Being Disrespectful to Your Spouse

  

  Recently, I was disrespectful to my husband while we were at our small group Bible study, of all places! It was just that the direction my husband was taking during our discussion just got under my skin. So I sat there stewing—thinking of what I would say to him later in a private moment. Apparently,…

  BethSteffaniak

  April 28, 2019

  About Me, Acceptance, Alienation, Amends, Anger, Attitude, Blaming, Boundaries, Christ-Centered, Communication, Confession, Conflict, Criticism, Discouragement, Encouragement, Forgiveness, Humility, Listening Skills, Love of God, Marriage, Positive Focus, Prayer, Resentments, Respect, Self-Reflection, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Spring Clean Your Marriage, Surrender, Vulnerability

  Communication, Conflict, Cover with Love, Criticism, Disrespect, Forgiveness, God’s Love, Listening Skills, Respect, Surender to God

• 3 Ways to Cover Others with Love When Hurt or Stressed

  

  How did you fare on getting through the stress of the Thanksgiving holiday? Did it fill you up with large helpings of turkey, as well as fun times spent with family and friends? Or were you fed up by someone’s hurtful words and/or actions? Sadly, family gatherings often come and go with heaping portions of…

  BethSteffaniak

  November 28, 2017

  Alienation, Amends, Anger, Betrayal, Bible Study, Bible Study Tools, Choices, Christ-Centered, Comfort, Conflict, Discouragement, Encouragement, Failure, Faith in God, Forgiveness, God’s Redemption, Grace, Grief, Guilt, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Love, Love of God, Love Strong Series, Marriage, Pain, Perspective, Resentments, Self-awareness, Self-Reflection, Shame, Spiritual Practices, Stress, Surrender, Toxic Baggage

  Amends, Bible Study, Forgiveness, God’s Power, Grace, Grief, Love, Pain, Responsibility, Wound

• Getting Your Spouse to Open Up – Part Two (Video)

  

  Today I’m talking about the second half of the process that will encourage your spouse to open up and engage with you in conversation. I feel like this should be a process that is built brick by brick—keeping each brick in place as the foundation of trust in your marriage is built, perhaps for the…

  BethSteffaniak

  December 4, 2016

  Acceptance, Accountability, Affirmation, Alienation, Amends, Apologies, Attitude, Avoidance, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Communication, Confession, Conflict, Confrontation, Conversation, Discouragement, Emotions, Encouragement, Engagement, Listening Skills, Marriage, Openness, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Questioning Marriage Videos, Realistic Expectations, Self-Reflection, Validation, Video, Vulnerability

  Accountability, Affirmation, Communication, Conversation, Listening, Listening Skills, Openness, Prayer, Vulnerability

• How to Let Bitterness Go

  Today I want to look at the difficulty of releasing any hurt or bitterness we feel due to the sins “someone we are trying to reconcile with” may continue to commit against us. I want to stress, this is for the person who has chosen to forgive an offending spouse, has emotionally and spiritually worked…

  BethSteffaniak

  June 11, 2014

  Acceptance, Amends, Anger, Attitude, Blaming, Change, Christ-Centered, Confrontation, Forgiveness, Grace, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Prayer, Realistic Expectations, Reconciliation, Resentments, Self-Reflection, Wedded Wednesday

  Boundaries, Forgiveness, Forgiveness Series, Reconciliation, Releasing Bitterness

• Amends – What Do They Look Like?

  I’m returning to our series on forgiveness this week by highlighting how to make amends, as well as, how to determine if the amends are being fulfilled. I’m taking much of what I’m going to discuss from Beyond Boundaries—a great book for anyone seeking to rebuild a damaged relationship and it’s currently bargain priced for…

  BethSteffaniak

  May 28, 2014

  Amends, Apologies, Attitude, Boundaries, Change, Communication, Confession, Forgiveness, Realistic Expectations, Reconciliation, Resentments, Trust, Wedded Wednesday

  Amends, Boundaries, Change, Forgiveness, Forgiveness Series