Category: Prayer
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What Christ’s Victory Means for My Marriage And 5 Steps to Embrace It! (Linkup)

I’m excited to have Lori Schumaker as my guest today while I’m on vacation. She is sharing her hope-filled insights for when our marriages are impacted by the schemes of the devil, as we continue in my spiritual warfare series. Please make her feel at home here by commenting below and sharing her wise words…
BethSteffaniak
Bible Study, Christ-Centered, Deception, Discouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Identity, Insecurity, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Marriage, Negative Self-Talk, Positive Focus, Prayer, Security, Self-deception, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Spiritual Warfare, Spiritual Warfare Series, Surrender, Truth -
How to Change Your Behavior so Your Marriage Can Improve (And Linkup)

Even though as a counselor I had to slog my way through lots of classes on Behavioral Psychology or Behavior Modification back in my old school days, I never really felt like behavior alone could create lasting or powerful change in marriage or relationships. However, that’s viewing things from the inside out, like Matthew 15:18…
BethSteffaniak
Attitude, Back to School Series, Bible Study, Bonding, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Commitment, Denial, Encouragement, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Humility, Marriage, Openness, Perseverance, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Responsibility, Self-awareness, Self-deception, Self-Reflection, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Truth -
The ABC’s of How to Forgive a Spouse And Linkup

One of the gusty winds people often feel in marriage has to do with a heart growing cold out of a need to forgive a mate. I was there in that frigid place many years ago and still find myself tempted to return to that icy and unforgiving place whenever my husband hurts me. Because…
BethSteffaniak
Acceptance, Anger, Back to School Series, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Discouragement, Emotions, Encouragement, Faith in God, Forgiveness, From Messes to Messages Linkup, God’s Redemption, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Love of God, Marriage, Pain, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Redemption, Resentments, Self-awareness, Self-Reflection, Self-sacrifice, Truth, Victim Mentality, Wounds -
Arithmetic – Counting What Counts When Discouraged in Marriage And Linkup

I don’t know where you were when the solar eclipse occurred, but in my neck of the woods, we had an excellent view of it. Some said 99.5%! I feel as if the eclipse is a good way to illustrate my next “lesson” in my Back to School series—“Arithmetic – Counting What Counts.” I think…
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The Cure for ‘Pity-Pot’ Prayers to Gain Perspective in Marriage

I’m continuing in my series: “Back to School—7 Lessons on Learning to Love Well When the Winds of Marriage Grow Colder”—by talking today about lesson #2 on “Writing.” Be advised: this isn’t just writing for the sake of improving our penmanship or literary skills. It is all about a valuable marriage tool available to us…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Acceptance, Anger, Attitude, Back to School Series, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Confession, Denial, Discouragement, Encouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Marriage, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Pride, Resentments, Self-awareness, Self-deception, Self-Reflection, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Victim Mentality -
Stage Two of Confronting a Spouse And Linkup!

In marriage, a lot of couples are able to work through at least a minor to moderate-level conflict without the help of a third or fourth party. 😉 In fact, there’s even advice from Scripture that says outside parties should steer clear of a conflict that is not their own! #dogbite “Interfering in someone else’s…
BethSteffaniak
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How Long Should I Extend Grace in Marriage? And Linkup

I ended last week’s post in the series, The Many Faces of Grace, with this question: When is it unhealthy or “enabling” to overlook an insult or sin in my spouse (or other offender)? I think the questions to consider in this kind of situation are: Is it destructive to one or more relationships? (Creating…
BethSteffaniak
Acceptance, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Confrontation, Encouragement, Expectations, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Grace, Humility, Love of God, Many Faces of Grace, Patience, Perseverance, Positive Focus, Prayer, Proactive, Resentments, Salvation, Self-sacrifice, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Spiritual Warfare, Surrender -
What Extending Grace Looks like in Marriage – Plus Linkup

One of the things that has often confounded me is, when do I extend grace? Is it all the time? And what does grace even look like, especially in marriage? I think of grace like forgiveness—letting something go. After all, the Lord certainly has let go of the need to punish me for my sin—dying…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Acceptance, Anger, Attitude, Avoidance, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Confrontation, Encouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, Fear, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Grace, Humility, Many Faces of Grace, Marriage Mistakes, Openness, Positive Focus, Prayer, Pride, Realistic Expectations, Resentments, Spiritual Practices, Surrender, Trust, Truth -
Simple Date Idea #7 – Gratitude Walk

My husband and I have discovered that often one of the first “honeymoon phase” practices to go is expressing gratitude to each other. That means it’s often a distant image in the rearview mirror for most couples who’ve been married for any length of time. But oh how it improves the atmosphere and culture of…
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Let God’s Word Resurrect Your Love in Marriage And Linkup

Since Easter is fast approaching, I think it’s quite appropriate to talk about how God’s word can resurrect your love in a wounded and messy marriage. I’m continuing my series, “Slow, Know and Grow” by sharing my Bible study method, WORTHY with all of you. But also know that any Bible study method or reading…


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