Tag: Selfishness

• How a Faulty Worship Focus Can Hurt Your Marriage

  

  Today my guest and newfound friend Kevin Taylor exposes a faulty focus related to worship that keeps God from being on the throne of a husband’s heart. Our lives and marriages—for both husbands and wives—will continue to fail, without making this essential shift! Find out more about Kevin below, including checking out his blog. When…

  BethSteffaniak

  September 30, 2019

  Alienation, Attitude, Blaming, Boundaries, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Commitment, Conflict, Desires, Discouragement, Encouragement, Expectations, Faith in God, Humility, Identity, Laziness, Love, Love for God, Marriage, Perseverance, Persevere in the Lord, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Priorities, Responsibility, Self-awareness, Self-deception, Self-sacrifice, Selfishness, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Worship

  Christ-centered, Idolatry, Love of God, Love of self, Misplaced Worship, Selfishness, Selflessness, Son of God, Worship

• Resurrect Me from the Pull of My Desires And Linkup

  

  In my new series—Resurrect Me—I want to explore all the ways you and I let addictions, compulsions and bad habits drag us back to the “grave” of our former selves (Rom. 7:22-25). This unbridled and relentless hunger can be especially destructive in marriage—making it so very messy and ugly. There’s an important passage in James…

  BethSteffaniak

  March 29, 2016

  About Me, Addictions, Anger, Attitude, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Communication, Conflict, Desires, Emotions, Faith in God, Grace, Humility, Negotiation, Resentments, Respect, Resurrect Me Series, Selfishness, Surrender, Unity, Validation, Wedded Wednesday

  Addictions, Anger, Arguing, Bad Habits, Communication, Conflict, Desires, Selfishness

• Will you meet ‘my’ needs? SJT Video

  

  In this video, I share how anytime I seek my independence and focus on getting “my needs”* met in marriage, I create something of a “tug-of-war” with my husband. I offer a “work-in-progress” strategy that has changed the dynamic and atmosphere of my marriage drastically for the better whenever I use it! I hope you’ll check it out…

  BethSteffaniak

  December 7, 2014

  About Me, Acceptance, Alienation, Attitude, Bonding, Choices, Christ-Centered, Encouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, Jesus’ Sacrifice, Oneness, Positive Focus, Realistic Expectations, Self-Protection, Self-sacrifice, Selfishness, Sloppy Joe Time Video, Unity, Video

  Christ’s Sacrifice, Christ-centered, Generosity, Independence, Needs, Selfishness, Surrender

• My Lazy Ways in Marriage

  

  My husband would never accuse me of being a couch potato, but when it comes to my marriage, sometimes I can be a little lazy. I guess that’s because of the “Law of Lock-Down.” Never heard of it? Well, it’s when you have “locked-down” your mate in the bonds of holy matrimony and you never…

  BethSteffaniak

  February 10, 2011

  Choices, Conflict, Laziness, Perseverance, Positive Focus, Priorities, Responsibility, Self-sacrifice, Selfishness

  Conflict, Entitlement, Laziness, Lazy, Responsibility, Selfishness