In this video, I share how anytime I seek my independence and focus on getting “my needs”* met in marriage, I create something of a “tug-of-war” with my husband. I offer a “work-in-progress” strategy that has changed the dynamic and atmosphere of my marriage drastically for the better whenever I use it!
I hope you’ll check it out below and hop on over to Youtube to subscribe to my “Messy Marriage Youtube Channel” as well! 🙂
What do you fear most about surrendering “your needs” for the benefit of your marriage?
How has fighting for your needs discouraged you in your marriage?
How has surrendering your needs for the benefit of your marriage encouraged you?
*BTW, I am NOT saying you shouldn’t discuss your needs with your spouse in a gracious and respectful way at times. But I am saying, that if your main focus is on getting your needs met, you will most likely create a dynamic that polarizes you from your spouse as well as heightening your spouse’s defenses. Just saying’! 😉