Category: Positive Focus
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Stage Two of Confronting a Spouse And Linkup!

In marriage, a lot of couples are able to work through at least a minor to moderate-level conflict without the help of a third or fourth party. 😉 In fact, there’s even advice from Scripture that says outside parties should steer clear of a conflict that is not their own! #dogbite “Interfering in someone else’s…
BethSteffaniak
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Simple Date #8 – Fun and Inspiration by the Water

One of my all-time favorite activities to do on a date is to seek out a body of water of some kind to sit by and gaze at the beautiful hues that dance and shimmer on the surface. Of course, give me a vacation at the beach where I can sink my toes into the…
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How Long Should I Extend Grace in Marriage? And Linkup

I ended last week’s post in the series, The Many Faces of Grace, with this question: When is it unhealthy or “enabling” to overlook an insult or sin in my spouse (or other offender)? I think the questions to consider in this kind of situation are: Is it destructive to one or more relationships? (Creating…
BethSteffaniak
Acceptance, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Confrontation, Encouragement, Expectations, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Grace, Humility, Love of God, Many Faces of Grace, Patience, Perseverance, Positive Focus, Prayer, Proactive, Resentments, Salvation, Self-sacrifice, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Spiritual Warfare, Surrender -
What Extending Grace Looks like in Marriage – Plus Linkup

One of the things that has often confounded me is, when do I extend grace? Is it all the time? And what does grace even look like, especially in marriage? I think of grace like forgiveness—letting something go. After all, the Lord certainly has let go of the need to punish me for my sin—dying…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Acceptance, Anger, Attitude, Avoidance, Choices, Christ-Centered, Conflict, Confrontation, Encouragement, Faith in God, False Beliefs, Fear, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Grace, Humility, Many Faces of Grace, Marriage Mistakes, Openness, Positive Focus, Prayer, Pride, Realistic Expectations, Resentments, Spiritual Practices, Surrender, Trust, Truth -
Simple Date Idea #7 – Gratitude Walk

My husband and I have discovered that often one of the first “honeymoon phase” practices to go is expressing gratitude to each other. That means it’s often a distant image in the rearview mirror for most couples who’ve been married for any length of time. But oh how it improves the atmosphere and culture of…
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Let God’s Word Resurrect Your Love in Marriage And Linkup

Since Easter is fast approaching, I think it’s quite appropriate to talk about how God’s word can resurrect your love in a wounded and messy marriage. I’m continuing my series, “Slow, Know and Grow” by sharing my Bible study method, WORTHY with all of you. But also know that any Bible study method or reading…
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How Your Marriage Factors into Your Bible Study Habit And Linkup

Whenever we slow ourselves to be with God through daily prayer and Bible study, we will inevitably face distractions, discouragements and difficulties that pull us away from this pursuit. #spiritualwarfare It’s never easy to start and maintain a good habit but it’s so much harder at the start of this very important sacred habit. So…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Accountability, Attitude, Bible Study Tools, Choices, Christ-Centered, Commitment, Discouragement, Encouragement, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, God’s Redemption, Perseverance, Persevere in the Lord, Perspective, Positive Focus, Prayer, Priorities, Redemption, Slow Know and Grow Series, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices, Support -
6 Strategies for Connecting with God Daily
With all the knowledge I’ve gleaned and used over the years as a marriage counselor and life coach, none of that really made as big of a difference in my marriage as connecting daily with God. But the biggest challenge for most people seems to be establishing that sacred habit. So today I will be…
BethSteffaniak
About Me, Accountability, Bible Study Tools, Change, Choices, Christ-Centered, Commitment, Connection, Encouragement, Faith in God, From Messes to Messages Linkup, Love of God, Marriage, Peace, Positive Focus, Prayer, Priorities, Proactive, Slow Know and Grow Series, Spiritual Growth, Spiritual Practices -
Make Dating a Priority with Simple Date Idea #1

Sometimes we can let our lives become more crowded and busy than we should with kids to shuttle here and responsibilities to do there, eventually putting the priority of dating our mates on the back burner. Then we wonder why our marriage feels so lifeless and our spouse seems distant and uncaring. If there’s one…
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How I Failed and Succeeded to Pray for My Sons – Plus Linkup

Prayer is very important to me as a mom, not to mention as a Christ-follower. But I haven’t always done parts of it perfectly or even well. I’ve been very consistent in how much I pray for my children—both then and now. But I failed in how little I prayed WITH my kids. So today…
BethSteffaniak
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