In this “Sloppy Joe Time” video, I’m tackling the need for perspective whenever my spouse is irritated, grouchy, feeling bad or whatever, but it has nothing to do with me. In those times, I tend to get too close to the situation and try to take responsibility for what is my husband’s responsibility and problem. In my household, this usually creates a tangled mess!
I hope you’ll click on the video below to see what I’m learning to do instead.
Also I made a brief mention in my video above about the video below, “It’s Not about the Nail.” If you’re interested you can view that video as well! Trust me, it’s hilarious!
What are you trying to do for your spouse when you step in to “fix” the situation that stems from good motives?
What are you doing in those moments that stems from unrealistic or unhealthy motives?
If you’d like to view the video at Messy Marriage’s Youtube channel or view some of the other Sloppy Joe Time videos, click here. And I’d love it if you’d subscribe to the channel while you’re there!