As a counselor and life-coach, people often ask me what’s the best way to get their lives and marriages back on track. My answer often leaves them less than satisfied.
I always say—it’s connecting with God and His word daily.
It’s as if they can’t quite see the connection between a vibrant and growing faith and a vibrant and growing marriage. They want some formula, steps to follow, or a more direct correlation to the issues plaguing their marriages.
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If you’ve visited Messy Marriage at any point over the past few years, you’ve seen me make a case for Scripture informing our lives. Scripture and prayer even go even further, transforming our attitudes and actions in marriage.
But all of that can sound more like “blah, blah, blah” until you experience it for yourself.
Because I feel so strongly about this, I feel it’s only fitting to give you some tips on how to make time for God each day. After all, I know that many of you will be trying to do better in this regard in the New Year.
I’d also love to have you take a survey on this subject here. This will help me to learn what are your biggest hurdles so that I can address these in 2021 and beyond.
But before you do that, allow me to share …
4 Crucial Tips for Making Time for God Each Day
1. Pray about this endeavor!
I’ve found that unless I pray about a matter before I begin it, my ability, attitude and perspectives will not be as God-empowered as they can be. This is true for uncomfortable conversations, a challenging day ahead, and/or the strength/resolve to make time for God.
We desperately need to invite God into this effort or we will be doomed from the start!
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.” Matthew 7:7
God says no to some requests because they are not according to His will or asked from wrong motives. But this is one prayer God will answer in the affirmative every.single.time!
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2. Discern the best day and time for meeting with God.
This too needs to be discerned with prayer and not just a glance at your schedule. Ask God to make it clear to you when would be best. Then ask Him to give you the power and motivation to make it happen each day at that particular time.
Practically speaking, it’s always best to choose the same time each day whenever possible. This way you’ll be more inclined to remember to do it. If your schedule is really packed full, you might even want to put it on your calendar so you never double-book!
3. Enlist a good, same-gender friend to hold you accountable.
I talk a lot about accountability here … because it works!
When you ask people to check in on you each week, you’ll be much more prone to stick with your plan. Besides, it encourages you, making you feel less alone in the pursuit of your goal.
Just be sure to ask God who you should choose since He always knows better than you do (Prov. 3:5-6).
4. Pick a Bible study PLAN.
I don’t suppose I have to say this again, but I will! Ask God to give you discernment on what plan to start. Because you always need a plan in place if you hope to make this work.
This could be anything from a Bible study book to a reading plan. Just don’t close your eyes and drop your finger on a text in your Bible, letting that decide where you’ll read for the day.
Your Bible is NOT a Ouija board!
With that in mind, won’t you join me in a private Facebook Bible study—“Pray Like David”—that will be kicking off the week of January 3rd, 2021? Click here to request to be added. Want more details before you make the commitment? Click here.
You know, experts say it takes at least 21 but more like 42 days to establish a habit. Since this study will be going for 12 weeks, you’ll have more than enough days to establish a new habit in your life!
And there’s an added bonus with this Bible study because you’ll not only learn my WORTHY Bible study method but you’ll also learn how to pray like David!
- So, if you’re feeling like you’re wandering in the proverbial wilderness in your life and/or marriage; then you’ll know how David processed his fears and grief with the Lord during his wilderness times.
- And if you’re feeling like your spouse is out to get you; then you’ll know how to encourage yourself in the Lord like David did while King Saul and others were chasing him relentlessly.
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Again, I’d love it if you’d take a survey on the hurdles you face in creating time with God. Click here to take it now. This will help guide me for posts that I’ll be doing in the future, enabling me to create resources that can help you establish this priority and practice!
And Merry Christmas to you and yours! I hope you’ll focus your greatest devotion and attention on the One who came as a baby in a manger to save the lost world! And I’ll strive to do the same!
What is your biggest hurdle in creating the habit of meeting with God?
What tips do you have for others who struggle to make this a priority?
Here are some lovely linkups I join – Inspire Me Monday, Purposeful Faith, Tell His Story, InstaEncouragements Linkup, Recharge Wednesday, Worth Beyond Rubies Wednesday, Tune in Thursday, Heart Encouragement, Grace and Truth, and Faith on Fire Friday.
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