Sometimes we get hung up in a messy marriage because we blame our partner or even God, like I mentioned in my post last week, Feeling Trapped in a Loveless Marriage.

But sometimes we feel we’re the one to blame for the messes in our marriage.

Are you burdened down with guilt and shame for the damage you’ve caused in your marriage?

Or perhaps you’re running from that horrible truth …

Feeling so responsible for the damage in your marriage that you’re denying it at all costs—looking for a way to escape from the truth.

If either option is the case for you, I want to remind you of an even greater, stronger truth than the truth of your circumstances …

It’s the truth that God is for you and can transform you … if you’ll let Him.

“Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.” Romans 12:2 (NIV)

Watch this video for a moving confirmation of this truth. Let it be the nudge you need to turn it all over to Him.

Linking up with NOBH, Revive Your Marriage, Playdates with God, Seedlings in Stone and Marital Oneness Monday