Here at Messy Marriage our team tries to address all sorts of messy issues in marriage, but— believe it or not—we can’t experience ALL the problems that this world can throw at us. However, “collectively” our team has experienced quite a few! 🙂

My desire has always been for this to be a place where everyone who visits can relate to the issues that others are facing or find support by learning and receiving a truth or perspective that is needed. So I’m here to make a request of you, my Messy Marriage audience …

Would you consider sharing your story with us?

We are looking for people who are willing to either openly or anonymously share about one particular messy moment in your marriage.

This moment doesn’t have to be currently “figured out” or have some kind of moral or lesson that’s included in the story. It can simply be an illustration of how messy marriage can be at times. Of course, it can also come from the perspective of, “Here’s what I learned through that experience.” Either way works.

The most important thing is that it does not come from a victim mentality—where you are simply airing some gripe you have about your mate. Come from an angle of redemption, revealing what you need to take responsibility for to make this mess better or to trust God more. 

If you are interested in sharing your story, please contact me (Beth). You can find my email address on the contact page. Please realize that I reserve the right to determine whether your story is appropriate for this blog. And if it needs editing or trimming (since we try to keep our posts to 600 word count or less), I may be working with you on that as well.

Consider this an opportunity to minister to others. God is the Great Redeemer, so perhaps he wants to redeem your story by helping someone else who’s going through the same or similar situation.